I have been lectured that I do not go out and socialize. More accurately, to go get a drink and get to know people more. But getting to know people doesn't mean you have to be in a pub with alcohol in your hand. Why can't we know people in a more comfortable place with no dim lights, loud music and alcohol?

We can get to know people in a nice, quiet atmosphere with even mineral water. If alcohol is such a necessity, fine. A nice, quiet atmosphere with alcohol in hand. I might sound like an old soul but I am not comfortable with this kind of places. Never been there, no right to judge but I am just stating my personal opinion on what I feel.

I mean how are you suppose to know someone when you have to shout to get your words across?