Stupid requests is just plain irritating and stupid but the most idiotic one is me. I don't know whether its just me or what, depending on situation, I couldn't reject people when they are asking me to do something especially when they are damn persistent about it. I said once no, twice and when they keep on continuing bugging me about asking me help, pleading me even...that's when I hate my lenient idiotic self. Not to mention when those stupid requests came from a family member.
That is why I seldom trying to know what the problem they are having. I asked, you tell me and that's it. I am no Samaritan who understand your pain and all, although I may understand but I surely wouldn't help till the extent that makes me feel bad, reluctant and unwilling. Help is only granted on my on free will and any forcing and pleading will however make me feels irritated, annoyed and left a bad impression of you.
As I am trying to repeatedly ignore and refuse someone's request, I couldn't help but to feel guilty that I am very reluctant to help him and also a part of me is screaming "I don't want to do it!" Why can't people just ask what you wanted instead of going through lengths just for that?
Ask and you will be given. Although you have asked and you are not given, then you just have to settle it on your own.
There is always an alternative options.
If to get something from someone and you have to go through the pretense, making up memorize dialogues, dragging people along with your scheme of sweet coated words, sympathy, it would be better off that you don't obtain whatever you wanted to. What is the point?!
P/S: I need to make a to-do-list. I am always forgetting what I should do and delaying them.
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